This year we were fortunate enough to be able to attend Ryan's family's Christmas party hosted every year by his Grandma J. It is usually held on Christmas Eve but this year they decided to hold it on the Saturday before so that more could attend. Since it was my family's year for us to go to Christmas, and since last year we missed Christmas with Ryan's family due to the arrival of one little Max on Christmas Eve, we didn't want to miss Grandma's party this year. It was a nice party. It was nice to be with the Johnsen side and Max really enjoyed himself. Grandma Johnsen is 88 years old and still manages to make sure (with much help from Ryan's parents) that there is wonderful food, a variety of songs & games, gifts for everyone, and enough love to fill the church that we schedule in advance for the festivities. We sure do love that Grandma J.! 12.29.2007
This year we were fortunate enough to be able to attend Ryan's family's Christmas party hosted every year by his Grandma J. It is usually held on Christmas Eve but this year they decided to hold it on the Saturday before so that more could attend. Since it was my family's year for us to go to Christmas, and since last year we missed Christmas with Ryan's family due to the arrival of one little Max on Christmas Eve, we didn't want to miss Grandma's party this year. It was a nice party. It was nice to be with the Johnsen side and Max really enjoyed himself. Grandma Johnsen is 88 years old and still manages to make sure (with much help from Ryan's parents) that there is wonderful food, a variety of songs & games, gifts for everyone, and enough love to fill the church that we schedule in advance for the festivities. We sure do love that Grandma J.! 12.18.2007
12.16.2007
Snow Days
Don't get me wrong. I have fond childhood memories of winters in Texas. I just didn't know what I was missing out on...you know, what all those kids "up north" were doing on their winter breaks!
This photo was taken out my kitchen window this past week. I am certain that I was not spending my weekends doing this when I was 5!
This was taken this morning as Ryan and I were leaving his parents' home in Tooele. 8 inches of snow. He said that when he was little, sometimes the snow would be waist deep as they were walking to school!
12.11.2007

WILL JOLEA EVEN IT OUT, OR WILL THE GIRLS BE UP BY TWO?
CHRISTMAS IS FOR HIM
It's hard to believe that Christmas is just around the corner. I promised myself that this year I would get all the tedious stuff done early so that I could enjoy the Spirit of the Season with my family, perhaps catching a few of the local festivities without having to worry about neighbor gifts, and what the heck to get the in-laws and the grandmas and what kind of Christmas "goodies" I'm going to have to make for people I hardly know, and the wrapping that's not done, and how I never got my trim up around my door or the Christmas lights hung on my house, and then there's my son's first birthday on Christmas Eve to plan for. Well here it is just two short weeks from Christmas and I find myself worrying about all of the above and a few dozen more things. And for what? A recent poll showed that over 60% of us can't even recall what our favorite gift was that we got last year.
I have thought a lot about what President Monson said in the Christmas Devotional. It's a time to remember the greatest gift that we can never forget, the birth of a baby boy, our Savior Jesus Christ...and Christmas is for the children. It's a time to let them experience the magic of it all. As I look at my little boy, our own baby that came to us last Christmas, and see the twinkle in his eye as he experiences some of the magic of it all for the first time, I understand what President Monson was saying. It's his turn...and he doesn't care what fudge recipe I use, or if the ribbon matches the paper, or if the trim is up around the door. He needs his Mommy and his Daddy to help him capture the Spirit and Wonder of the Season. This is his first time hearing the carols and the bells, watching the falling snow, smelling the pine, and seeing the twinkling lights.
How wonderful it would be if as we all aged, when Christmas came, we only experienced the wonder of it all, like we did when we were children. No worrying, no stress over money and needless gifts. No freaking out over Christmas cards and what to wear to parties. What if everyone just shared in the magic of it all and only gave gifts that would improve the life of someone less fortunate than themselves. Perhaps I've been missing out on more than I realized. I have lost the simplicity of it all. There was nothing commercialized about the first Christmas; it was perhaps the most humble of all circumstances. Yet what wonder and magic accompanied the birth of one very special baby boy. What a blessing to have my own little boy to put it all back into perspective. Thanks Max. Christmas is for you.
12.09.2007
12.07.2007
11.28.2007
I have commitment issues. Only they are manifesting themselves in different ways now. I had a hair appointment today. I've mentioned my internal battle with the idea of chopping my hair. Well, I went in today fully prepared to give it an honest chance...and I did. She took 3 inches off and then I debated for a good 20 minutes in the chair of just biting the bullet and letting Tricia, the magic maker, do her magic. I said "Okay just do it". As she pinned up the front sections and set her scissors at the bottom of my neck, I panicked. "It'll take you a good year to grow it back out..." just kept running through my mind. She gave me one last opportunity to back out before she started up the scissors and I took it. So I left with a great color and 3 less inches...inches I know I can get back in about 3-4 months. I always thought I was a risk taker...oh, no...I'm turning into my very safe, very predictable, very cautious husband. How in the %$#*! did that happen?
ALL is WELL...
Ryan returned from Australia. He loved it. Then Thanksgiving came and went. We all ate too much. Then Ryan and I spent a Sunday in the ER. He had some kind of weird infection. Then we put up Christmas. Life has just returned to normal...and now my husband is leaving again. He leaves Saturday for a week...this time to Korea and the Philippines. He says that's where he is going to do his Christmas shopping so that no one can return anything...



Ryan and his GQ pose
Karate Kid?










